More pendulum Ben Simon, God bless him for the Prophet, peace be upon him said: (mainland good manners, and the sin which wavers in yourself, and be consulted by the hated people) Narrated by Muslim.
And about Abesh Ben Temple may Allah be pleased with him, said: I came to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said: (I came asking about the mainland?), I said: Yes, he said: (استفت heart, righteousness what reassured him self and reassured the heart, and the sin which wavers in the soul the frequency in the chest, though أفتاك المفتون) talk of Hassan Roenah, in مسندي Imams: Ahmad ibn Hanbal, and recaps attribution Hassan.
جزاك الله خيرا
بارك الله فيكِ واثابك ونفع بكِ
لا اله الا الله
جزاكي الله كل خير